"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Blondes just hate me?

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That's what it seems like. When I'm out in public places or at school they always give me a quick glance and then ignore me and never are receptive to any conversations. Either way they've always been my last preference, after brunettes and then redheads, which usually are the ones who show me interest and even make it obvious/easy at times. I do have brown hair myself and as of lately I've grown out my beard which is...red?:crazy: Oh and when a blonde does dig me, it's usually dyed so not genuine.

Anyone else have this happen to them, maybe another hair color? Just curious
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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most blondes are not natural........are we talking just women or men with blonde hair also.

You could dye your hair blonde and see if your image in your mirror tries to avoid you...then you will know once and for all.

DUDE...........its not the hair color............its something your NOT doing.

INTERESTING TIDBIT-on the net a chic with blonde hair is the equivelant of having a University degree as far as popularity/success goes. Not that I have ever uttered the words.........OH MY GOD THAT CHIC IS SO FRICKEN INTELLIGENT.
 
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