"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blondes, brownies, and reds

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i know this post probably has been done before, but does anyone have any opinions on how to deal with each one accordingly? are they really different from one another? preferably, i am inquiring about reds. i have had experience with some, but i just want to hear about others' experiences with them or the others.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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strey said:
i know this post probably has been done before, but does anyone have any opinions on how to deal with each one accordingly? are they really different from one another? preferably, i am inquiring about reds. i have had experience with some, but i just want to hear about others' experiences with them or the others.
Well apparantly blonds are more 'fun', brunettes are more seirous and redheads are more firey. Probably complete balls. Most girls on my campus dye their hair anyways!!
 
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