Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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blondes, brownies, and reds

strey

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i know this post probably has been done before, but does anyone have any opinions on how to deal with each one accordingly? are they really different from one another? preferably, i am inquiring about reds. i have had experience with some, but i just want to hear about others' experiences with them or the others.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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strey said:
i know this post probably has been done before, but does anyone have any opinions on how to deal with each one accordingly? are they really different from one another? preferably, i am inquiring about reds. i have had experience with some, but i just want to hear about others' experiences with them or the others.
Well apparantly blonds are more 'fun', brunettes are more seirous and redheads are more firey. Probably complete balls. Most girls on my campus dye their hair anyways!!
 
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