"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blonde vs. Brunette vs. asian vs. others

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think guys are attracted to their opposites like guys with blonde hair usually go for brunetts.

I personally like blondes for ONS and hooking up and brunet for LTR/girlfriend. Ethinicity doesn't really matter but PLEASE NO REDHEADS AHHHH FREAKLES SUCK!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have brown hair.

Luke!! said:
Im partially blonde haired and brown, its a mixture not a clue what to call it. But I loooooove blondes, usually because the blondes have blue eyes. When you got those two its a deadly combo. I got blue Eyes to. I go for the same as me I geuss
It's called "dirty blonde."
 

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I like blonde the best too. But japanese makes to slurping noise when giving heads and they act all cute and innocent. LOL
 

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Personally I like brunettes and Asian girls who have some "caucasian leaning" features (like rounder eyes, long legs, a little more "curves" and taller height).

I'm NOT saying that I wil say no to a cute blonde, but the blondness alone doesn't give the girl any edge in my eyes.

On the last note, I don't like girls who are short and fat, so many latinas and filipinas...:nervous: But hey there are exceptions right?:D



Ethinicity doesn't really matter but PLEASE NO REDHEADS AHHHH FREAKLES SUCK!
So True! :yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a real soft spot for smart petite blondes......Not easy to find thow.
 

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redhead

I told my girlfriend that I loved her hair because it was the same colour as an uncooked steak, and she hit me. strange girl.
 

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ha I have a soft spot for black haired girls with deep blue eyes. I like the whole classy appearance.
 

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I avoid blondes like the plague: their attitudes are for sh!t. They think they can be beyatches just because their hair is blonde? Gimme a break.

Do you know why they are called "Barbies"?
Have you ever pulled the head off of a Barbie doll? What's inside? Nothing.


Nope, no blondes for me. I'm all about the jet-black haired babies. Mmm... ruby red lipstick... green eyes. *BOOOIIINGG!!*
 

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Vulpine, we should NEVER sarge together. LOL :D

BTW, there's a town here in Brazil that women there would make you FREAK OUT :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You guys are so superficial.. I mean theres something called personality. GEEZ

But on a sidenote, hair isn't everything. It's the whole appearance. Body, face especially. Curves...usual good stuff.
 

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WrEcKLeSS2000 is right, but all i'm asking who is top of the food chain in the majority perspective. You see, I believed it's blonde too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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