"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Blonde vs. Brunette vs. asian vs. others

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think guys are attracted to their opposites like guys with blonde hair usually go for brunetts.

I personally like blondes for ONS and hooking up and brunet for LTR/girlfriend. Ethinicity doesn't really matter but PLEASE NO REDHEADS AHHHH FREAKLES SUCK!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have brown hair.

Luke!! said:
Im partially blonde haired and brown, its a mixture not a clue what to call it. But I loooooove blondes, usually because the blondes have blue eyes. When you got those two its a deadly combo. I got blue Eyes to. I go for the same as me I geuss
It's called "dirty blonde."
 

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I like blonde the best too. But japanese makes to slurping noise when giving heads and they act all cute and innocent. LOL
 

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Personally I like brunettes and Asian girls who have some "caucasian leaning" features (like rounder eyes, long legs, a little more "curves" and taller height).

I'm NOT saying that I wil say no to a cute blonde, but the blondness alone doesn't give the girl any edge in my eyes.

On the last note, I don't like girls who are short and fat, so many latinas and filipinas...:nervous: But hey there are exceptions right?:D



Ethinicity doesn't really matter but PLEASE NO REDHEADS AHHHH FREAKLES SUCK!
So True! :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a real soft spot for smart petite blondes......Not easy to find thow.
 

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redhead

I told my girlfriend that I loved her hair because it was the same colour as an uncooked steak, and she hit me. strange girl.
 

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ha I have a soft spot for black haired girls with deep blue eyes. I like the whole classy appearance.
 

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I avoid blondes like the plague: their attitudes are for sh!t. They think they can be beyatches just because their hair is blonde? Gimme a break.

Do you know why they are called "Barbies"?
Have you ever pulled the head off of a Barbie doll? What's inside? Nothing.


Nope, no blondes for me. I'm all about the jet-black haired babies. Mmm... ruby red lipstick... green eyes. *BOOOIIINGG!!*
 

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Vulpine, we should NEVER sarge together. LOL :D

BTW, there's a town here in Brazil that women there would make you FREAK OUT :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You guys are so superficial.. I mean theres something called personality. GEEZ

But on a sidenote, hair isn't everything. It's the whole appearance. Body, face especially. Curves...usual good stuff.
 

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WrEcKLeSS2000 is right, but all i'm asking who is top of the food chain in the majority perspective. You see, I believed it's blonde too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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