"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blonde Latina cashier at Wal Greens

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Okay guys, I’m not gonna lie. I’ll flat out say it, semen retention works when it comes to attraction. These past few weeks while out here in the states, I’ve been getting nothing but IOI from the ladies out here. I don’t know if it’s a placebo, I’ve been wearing nothing but straight up polo shirts and cargo shorts and sneakers and women been giving me choosing signals while out here. I guess they can sniff out my Military pension and I’m a guy who has little too much free time on his hands lol.

But anyways I was at the park earlier today munching on some Taco Bell with Mountain Dew. I took off, then I needed to take a piss really bad and took a stop at our local Wal Greens to go to the rest room. Then I saw her, I knew she was Latina but she had blonde hair and light complexion. I asked her where the rest room was, she smiled at me and I took a glorious piss. I grabbed some Life Saver gummies to take with me to another park I know, she smiled and made her attraction obvious at the counter. I took off because I wanted to take it slow and start a casual conversation with her later. Do you think I should have struck a conversation with her right then and there? What do you guys think? If I were to go there again? Would it seem stalkish? She’s really pretty and probably flirts/ get hit on, with dudes all the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@Travel memoir21 "But anyways I was at the park earlier today munching on some Taco Bell with Mountain Dew"

Selecting Baja Blast, rather than the standard green stuff, reels in Marisols more readily than security cameraless AM/PMs attract armed robberies
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can't convince me you're not a troll, can you?
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Hey man...I wasn't expecting to be getting this much IOIs from the ladies since I've been here, the other day a hotter girl from Barnes and Nobles was checking me out and flat out smiling at me. I simply wanted to mind my own business while out here for the most part, wait til I get back to South East Asia and get back to my harem there. I head to Jacksonville Florida on the 17th to go to my dad's college reunion, how's that place like? I'll only be there til the 20th, then we go back to the Rio grande Valley. I wanna have a taste at flirting with a few Cuban and Puerto Rican women while out there lol. But anyways, I'm not taking this seriously, I'm simply here to go to Top Golf with my buddies, go to a few pubs and have a few drinks and probably play a few pick up Basketball games at the park. Just catching up and recreational fun. That is all.
 
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Travel memoir21 said:
Hey man...I wasn't expecting to be getting this much IOIs from the ladies since I've been here, the other day a hotter girl from Barnes and Nobles was checking me out and flat out smiling at me. I simply wanted to mind my own business while out here for the most part, wait til I get back to South East Asia and get back to my harem there. I head to Jacksonville Florida on the 17th to go to my dad's college reunion, how's that place like? I'll only be there til the 20th, then we go back to the Rio grande Valley. I wanna have a taste at flirting with a few Cuban and Puerto Rican women while out there lol. But anyways, I'm not taking this seriously, I'm simply here to go to Top Golf with my buddies, go to a few pubs and have a few drinks and probably play a few pick up Basketball games at the park. Just catching up and recreational fun. That is all.
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What does " recreational fun" in your world looks like?

Just curious, because not too long ago you stated that you won't sleep with a woman if you're not married to her....

So I ASSUME that you literally mean " bowling, a hug, and thats it"?
 
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Travel memoir21 said:
I’ll flat out say it, semen retention works when it comes to attraction.
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It does work. It does in all corners of life. As far as I can tell, the benefits you get from this are more noticeable in everything EXCEPT women. Attraction is increased, but again, it's not the main point.

Famous people that supposedly did this include Nikola Tesla, Adolf Hitler, Mike Tyson. The effects are exponential the longer you keep going. Anyone can reach some form of greatness if he has the willpower. It supplies additional energy and vitality. It can be either used for some sort of cause like these three examples did, or not ... in that case, the person will end up with massive amounts of mental distress until he eventually gives in to urges.

Although what you write seems a little bit weird to me, you come across as overly excited. I'm guessing your at day 10-30? The "Superpowers" are typically unstable at this stage but very noticeable.

Just for the record, I'm NOT saying anyone should stop pursuing women, even if those three examples apparently did this for extended periods of time. The critical part is to stop fapping and completely eliminate porn.

It's honestly ridiculous why people even argue nowadays if this works or not. How hard could it possibly be to stop wanking for a couple of weeks to verify?
 
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