"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Blond in Buenos Aires

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I'm going to Buenos Aires next spring for an extended period of time. I've done some research on the country, and asked people about what the situation is there vis-a-vis dating and sex. Since I'm blond and have blue eyes (ojos claros) I supposed I would stand out a bit.

BUT, I hear conflicting things. Some people say 'Oh, that's BS, it doesn't make a difference' while others (men and women) are more "You will be HOT; everyone will want to date you."

I just want to know if anyone here had any knowledge about the subject.

Not, of course, that being blond is some kind of 'Get Laid Free' card, but whether Argentine society is such that it iwll be an advantage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You will be wanted by ALL,you're from somewhere else(exotic),blonde and blue eyes(not common there). You will have that special "allure",you will be there a short amount of time and then leave,if the women wants you she knows that is her only time. Now get in shape and you will be raped over there I bet!
 

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Its not your hair color or your eye color that will determined if you have success.

Your overall look's and your game is what you need to work on in order to succeed. I also noticed that when you go to other countries or areas there are different level of machismo and that is always a plus if you are equal too or more manley then the local population. Although if it looks like you come from money it changes pretty much everything anywhere you go.
 

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This foreign exchange student slept with the hottest chick in his class at my high school. How did he do it;charm,looks,well kept,charismatic,c + f and he relized he wasn't going to see anyone in the U.S. again so he just went for it.:rockon:
 

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Buenos Aires is one of those Spanish Speaking places that actually has a lot of non-Spanish Europeans. You will run into Germans, Swiz, etc. There are more blondes there than in many places in Central & South America. It is a very, very cool city. Lots of places to hang out, cheap taxis & food, fun people.

You will have a good time for sure. Unless you are talking about trash diggers (there are many at night some are hawtees believe it or not.. and no, I have never hooked up with one LOL), hookers, or street people, the women aren't just going to jump into your arms, though. Being an outsider can get you benefits like no cover, some women, etc, but you still need to be a cool guy of course
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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everywomanshero said:
Buenos Aires is one of those Spanish Speaking places that actually has a lot of non-Spanish Europeans. You will run into Germans, Swiz, etc. There are more blondes there than in many places in Central & South America.
Are there, though? i hear opposite things about this too, from 'Argentine women are tall and blond' to 'Argentine women, they all look the same; small and brunette'.
 
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