"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blond in Buenos Aires

Leporello

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I'm going to Buenos Aires next spring for an extended period of time. I've done some research on the country, and asked people about what the situation is there vis-a-vis dating and sex. Since I'm blond and have blue eyes (ojos claros) I supposed I would stand out a bit.

BUT, I hear conflicting things. Some people say 'Oh, that's BS, it doesn't make a difference' while others (men and women) are more "You will be HOT; everyone will want to date you."

I just want to know if anyone here had any knowledge about the subject.

Not, of course, that being blond is some kind of 'Get Laid Free' card, but whether Argentine society is such that it iwll be an advantage.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You will be wanted by ALL,you're from somewhere else(exotic),blonde and blue eyes(not common there). You will have that special "allure",you will be there a short amount of time and then leave,if the women wants you she knows that is her only time. Now get in shape and you will be raped over there I bet!
 

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Its not your hair color or your eye color that will determined if you have success.

Your overall look's and your game is what you need to work on in order to succeed. I also noticed that when you go to other countries or areas there are different level of machismo and that is always a plus if you are equal too or more manley then the local population. Although if it looks like you come from money it changes pretty much everything anywhere you go.
 

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This foreign exchange student slept with the hottest chick in his class at my high school. How did he do it;charm,looks,well kept,charismatic,c + f and he relized he wasn't going to see anyone in the U.S. again so he just went for it.:rockon:
 

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Buenos Aires is one of those Spanish Speaking places that actually has a lot of non-Spanish Europeans. You will run into Germans, Swiz, etc. There are more blondes there than in many places in Central & South America. It is a very, very cool city. Lots of places to hang out, cheap taxis & food, fun people.

You will have a good time for sure. Unless you are talking about trash diggers (there are many at night some are hawtees believe it or not.. and no, I have never hooked up with one LOL), hookers, or street people, the women aren't just going to jump into your arms, though. Being an outsider can get you benefits like no cover, some women, etc, but you still need to be a cool guy of course
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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everywomanshero said:
Buenos Aires is one of those Spanish Speaking places that actually has a lot of non-Spanish Europeans. You will run into Germans, Swiz, etc. There are more blondes there than in many places in Central & South America.
Are there, though? i hear opposite things about this too, from 'Argentine women are tall and blond' to 'Argentine women, they all look the same; small and brunette'.
 
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