"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chronix

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When you are getting ****blocked what a good way to handle it? I just give up, and feel its not worth it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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THE_ADDMAN

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first of all, dont show any negative emotions. be cool, relaxed and confident. then you'll know what to do
 

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Be friendly with the blocker too, once someone starts blocking you they know what you're trying to do, they have an imaginary shield that extends to also protect their friend. I would not even pick up on the lady if there is a blocker in the way, break down the shield of the blocker by being friendly and you will have easier access to the lady target.

Occasionally the lady target will use someone to become a blocker, if you see this happening don't worry. Relax and walk away, she has rejected you already.
 

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If the CB is a guy that's easy, Just be friendly and with a half grin tell him: (in front of the chick or other guys) "Dude, you are absolutely THE coolest guy I have ever met! How can I be as cool as you?"

Then goof on the idiot. He won't know what to do but want to take it to a physical confrontation. At that point kick him in the d!ck.

If it's a chick CB call her a dishrag cvnt.
 

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Yea, I guess I been doing it right, when I get a block i just give up like she isnt worth trying for and see where that goes or just walk away like nothing ever happened.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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