"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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****blocks

Chronix

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When you are getting ****blocked what a good way to handle it? I just give up, and feel its not worth it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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THE_ADDMAN

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first of all, dont show any negative emotions. be cool, relaxed and confident. then you'll know what to do
 

Macgyver

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Be friendly with the blocker too, once someone starts blocking you they know what you're trying to do, they have an imaginary shield that extends to also protect their friend. I would not even pick up on the lady if there is a blocker in the way, break down the shield of the blocker by being friendly and you will have easier access to the lady target.

Occasionally the lady target will use someone to become a blocker, if you see this happening don't worry. Relax and walk away, she has rejected you already.
 

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If the CB is a guy that's easy, Just be friendly and with a half grin tell him: (in front of the chick or other guys) "Dude, you are absolutely THE coolest guy I have ever met! How can I be as cool as you?"

Then goof on the idiot. He won't know what to do but want to take it to a physical confrontation. At that point kick him in the d!ck.

If it's a chick CB call her a dishrag cvnt.
 

Chronix

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Yea, I guess I been doing it right, when I get a block i just give up like she isnt worth trying for and see where that goes or just walk away like nothing ever happened.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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