"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrmuscles2

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Okay so this girl i've been noticing for months, even my friends noticed that she has a thing for me, i asked about her (former classmates, even a guy who was once close to her and about to date her) and they all told me shes a good girl,not sl*tty nor manipulative (but i never let my guard down girls lie often) ...

basically added her on fb a couple months ago, we talked few times, then bam she blocked me, saw me, unblocked me and started talking to me, then started acting distant and weird again for a while, blocked me, then last week she walked up to me said hi and we sat together for few hours talking (didnt have anything better to do on campus and she seemed quite interested and very attraced to me), then she unblocked me, then blocked me again then unblocked (keep in mind she does this on her own iam not messaging her nor trying to lol) , by blocking i mean only on messenger the rest of her fb I can still view .

this is kinda entertaining actually, funny thing she is helping me with something that has to do with a job, i am starting to think that she has a personality disorder thing and feels super pissed or even flat out becomes a different person at times (Like split personality or something), this actually kinda intrigues me idk if i will end up dating her or not (probably not if she keeps acting crazy) but iam curious to why shes acting like that lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrmuscles2

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tell her shes a creep n block
usually iam a pretty forward guy and if shes wasnt helping me get a job i would have told her, either way iam planning to catch her in the next week or two and ask her why she keeps doing that, if shes afraid of her bf or something then ... well thast not my problem
 

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usually iam a pretty forward guy and if shes wasnt helping me get a job i would have told her, either way iam planning to catch her in the next week or two and ask her why she keeps doing that, if shes afraid of her bf or something then ... well thast not my problem
you want to depend on delusional people in concept of job?
 

mrmuscles2

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it is a really good job and i have been having a tough time finding a job , could use someone on the inside, worst case scenario she cant help and i just move on
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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