No one cares. Was stating how it would be received by her. Thought this forum was about knowing how women operate
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Blocking the ex, sign of winning?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
devilkingx2
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in this specific case, how it would be received by her is irrelevant, because blocking her means you never need to worry about her opinion again unless you're gonna go immediately hit up her best friend.
if you're at the point where you need to block a girl, you're far past worrying about winning petty games with her imo
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First of all.. She is not BDP, how did you come to that clinical diagnosis!
Blocking... If it is over, and I mean truly over FOREVER, then what is wrong with blocking her? Who cares what she may or may not think about you.
Your main objective should be, getting over this chick as quickly as possible.. If that means blocking her ass, then go ahead and DO IT.
Its not about winning or losing.. Its about moving on & learning from past mistakes!
Blocking... If it is over, and I mean truly over FOREVER, then what is wrong with blocking her? Who cares what she may or may not think about you.
Your main objective should be, getting over this chick as quickly as possible.. If that means blocking her ass, then go ahead and DO IT.
Its not about winning or losing.. Its about moving on & learning from past mistakes!