"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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asianbboy

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Finally found a good opening to talk to the girl. Had a good convo going, obvious interest from her. This dude then walks up, puts his arm around her, says some bs and then he completely ignores me. ****blocked so hard, I just was stunned for a second then walked off.
What would you do in this situation? I probably would have said like "ohh I didn't know you guys were dating" (they weren't, would have made him look bad). But I couldn't think fast enough. :|

More importantly, how can I not get stunned?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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3 options to say or do at this moment:
1)This must be your brother---and maybe add--- (to the douchebag)Nice to meet you, I'm your sister's boyfriend.
2)I think a rapist just landed on your shoulder.
3)(to the DB again) Too bad, She's already pregnant.

IDK, This is my sense of humor. Maybe make some that fits you.
 
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jericg said:
3 options to say or do at this moment:
1)This must be your brother---and maybe add--- (to the douchebag)Nice to meet you, I'm your sister's boyfriend.
2)I think a rapist just landed on your shoulder.
3)(to the DB again) Too bad, She's already pregnant.

IDK, This is my sense of humor. Maybe make some that fits you.
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I really like the first one, I'll definitely try it out.
 
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That is not a ****block. That is an opportunity to show off your social prowess.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I vote for Espi's advice.
Punching someone has nothing to do with being alpha, rather the opposite.
Just say something like "See you later girls" and walk away.
 
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Sounds like a pretty awful situation. I suggest forgiving yourself for these sorts of scenarios. Stop dwelling on them, and say instead, "it's only high school!" and then go work on one of your skills, and develop yourself in other ways.
 
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