"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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asianbboy

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Finally found a good opening to talk to the girl. Had a good convo going, obvious interest from her. This dude then walks up, puts his arm around her, says some bs and then he completely ignores me. ****blocked so hard, I just was stunned for a second then walked off.
What would you do in this situation? I probably would have said like "ohh I didn't know you guys were dating" (they weren't, would have made him look bad). But I couldn't think fast enough. :|

More importantly, how can I not get stunned?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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3 options to say or do at this moment:
1)This must be your brother---and maybe add--- (to the douchebag)Nice to meet you, I'm your sister's boyfriend.
2)I think a rapist just landed on your shoulder.
3)(to the DB again) Too bad, She's already pregnant.

IDK, This is my sense of humor. Maybe make some that fits you.
 
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jericg said:
3 options to say or do at this moment:
1)This must be your brother---and maybe add--- (to the douchebag)Nice to meet you, I'm your sister's boyfriend.
2)I think a rapist just landed on your shoulder.
3)(to the DB again) Too bad, She's already pregnant.

IDK, This is my sense of humor. Maybe make some that fits you.
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I really like the first one, I'll definitely try it out.
 
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That is not a ****block. That is an opportunity to show off your social prowess.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I vote for Espi's advice.
Punching someone has nothing to do with being alpha, rather the opposite.
Just say something like "See you later girls" and walk away.
 
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Sounds like a pretty awful situation. I suggest forgiving yourself for these sorts of scenarios. Stop dwelling on them, and say instead, "it's only high school!" and then go work on one of your skills, and develop yourself in other ways.
 
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