"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BLocked On OLD

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Take a gander at this message thread.....Her profile said she was perfect and some other nonsense. I thought I would mess with her. Thoughts?

  • hey,

    You can't be serious. Everyone elses fault, perfectly perfect?

    Bill
    Sent 8:36am

  • I'm a narcissist

    Sent 10:26am

  • Do tell...are you really that great? If so why?
    Sent 10:53am

  • Do you use okcupid for validation?
    Sent 10:54am

  • I use men in general for validation and once you can no longer validate me, I ignore you.

    Sent 12:12pm

  • At least you are honest. You have Fred flintstone feet.
    Sent 12:40pm

  • Your breath smells like garlic and elderberries.

    I think I am on ignore :p
    Sent 12:52pm

  • My breath smells like ass from all the **** I talk
    Sent 1:03pm

  • I also see corn and peanuts in your teeth. You one of those girls that are on here with no intentions of meeting someone? Omg use some mouth wash...i it smells like a hobos ass.
    Sent 1:34pm

  • Ha ha ha. You don't know me!!

    Sent 1:55pm

  • What's your name? Matilda?
    Sent 2:09pm

  • You are trapped in my web...lmao
    I could have fun with you
    Sent 3:08pm

  • Um no...you are trapped in my web and yes we could have fun. Would like to meet you but I think you do want validation and a text buddy. Give me your number and we can set something up. If not have fun with the losers that will play your game.
    Sent 3:44pm

  • I'd much rather be a lesbian than have you believe your delusions of grandeur
    Sent 4:17pm

  • Ok...happy clam diving
    Read by LotusOKCgirl 4:21pm

  • You are quite rude and couldn't have you around my special needs child.


THEN SHE BLOCKED ME! LOL!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I keep getting blocked.....Called out a woman on her ridiculous laundry list of wants. I always love the "I won't settle" line. She also wanted a woodsman with a penchant for poetry. I am going to make a profile as a man that has all of the ridiculous stuff a woman's profile has in it. I will be sure to add no lard asses need apply.
 

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Are you trying to get dates or win an argument by proving something?
 

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Are you trying to get dates or win an argument by proving something?
At this point I don't know. I think I am just pissed so that is a good question. I have been in a mood of late. Went to councilor today and she said i had issues. No kidding...i think im going monk and get my **** sorted out. Women in general are starting to piss me off. Got to fix my mental well being or i will turn into the old man yelling at kids to stay off his lawn. I still have a lot to learn and miles to travel. Bear with me as I make the journey. There will be no shortage of crazy.
 

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LMAO

Mate don't read their profiles. Those stupid shopping lists would do anyone s head in. Just follow Espi s approach. Bulk spam them And ask them out quick smart so u don't have to process so much of their ********.

Can't say I'm brilliant at this online dating thing but what I am good at is time boxing it to 2 hours a week. Now that probably will go up once I've achieved a few more of my objectives for the year. But I do find that keeping it minimal stops them messing with my head too much while I'm scraping the rust off my game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't know anything about this stuff but since you re on the Tren is it possible that s knocking your mood around?
 

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I don't know anything about this stuff but since you re on the Tren is it possible that s knocking your mood around?
Idk so much ha
I don't know anything about this stuff but since you re on the Tren is it possible that s knocking your mood around?
the testosterone could be causing it. But I have deeper issues. I am a mental mess. I have a date thursday I will cancel. I have one sunday. I might cancel it too. But I think its a slam dunk lay. I'll ask the nurse out and see how that goes. After that I'm a monk. The more I concentrate of fixing me the quicker the solution will come to fruition.
 

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Idk so much ha


the testosterone could be causing it. But I have deeper issues. I am a mental mess. I have a date thursday I will cancel. I have one sunday. I might cancel it too. But I think its a slam dunk lay. I'll ask the nurse out and see how that goes. After that I'm a monk. The more I concentrate of fixing me the quicker the solution will come to fruition.
Nurse is 23 so no go....saw her at the clinic today. T level is 968.
 
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