I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm a big program hoper, but I'm just going to stick to the Skinny guy routine. and no, I didn't buy that POS program.Originally posted by MetalFortress
I've no clue how anyone can even get measurements down to the 4th decimal. Anyways, I caught no squatting or deadlifting in your routine lately. Heavy squatting and deadlifting should be the cornerstone of your routine. I prefer having two workout days, one centered around squatting, and the other around deadlifting, and doing them like this, and doing my chest/triceps/shoulder stuff (usually just incline bench and military press) on deadlift day, and upper back/biceps (usually just a rack chin or pulldown type deal and barbell curls) on squat day.:
M Deadlift Day
W Squat Day
F Deadlift Day
M Squat Day
W Deadlift Day
F Squat Day
Oh, and time in the gym doesn't matter unless you're just being ridiculous and doing 10 sets of everything. 60 minutes is about par for the course, though I'm in for between 90-120 when I'm doing DC style training.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
He's up 10lbs, trust me, he's doing just fine.Ratisson said:Bling no offens but i look at this workout log and i laugh at u. Ur never going to get big doing this workout routine and that goes for all of u who follow a similar routine. The problem with this workout is that u arent pushing it hard enough. Ur muscles are never going to get bigger/defined by doing 3 sets of them 1-2 times per week. Its embarassing to see this post, but at least it gives me an idea of how confused all u guys are when u are looking to get big.
When i first started working out (in grade 9) i was one of the fortunate ones. The first thing my dad did for me was set me up with a personal trainer, which is what i recommend u do. He'll teach u how to workout properly and how to get big. Because when i look at this plan that u have i know u aren't getting bigger any time soon. For Workout #1 u can still do the exercises ur doing but u'll have to add more to it. If ur focused on getting ur upper body big then u will need to focus on shoulders, back, chest and core. So for chest u can do ur bench press but u will have to add two more exercises. Try dumbell fly's (when u do them make sure yoour wrists point in. do this 3 sets of ten. Then find another chest exercise, such as push ups. If u have a core ball i suggest u do them on this, with uir legs on the core ball and ur hands on the ground, if u dont have a core ball then do clap push ups.
The key to getting bigger for u is doing more exercises, u havent chosen enough. For you workout #1 u need to find 3 exercises for each muscle group that ur focusing on. So u will do ur bench press, then back , then shoulders, then keep ndoing this cycle of chest, back and shoulderrs untill u've done 3 of each then do core. If u do this workout 3 times a week (every other day) u WILL see improvements trust me. Then after all that is done, go put milk in the Blenda and make a protein shake!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You're right. It's embarassing to see your post.Ratisson said:Its embarassing to see this post
The perpetual voice of reason strikes again...Warboss Alex said:He's up 10lbs, trust me, he's doing just fine.![]()
MetalFortress said:I've no clue how anyone can even get measurements down to the 4th decimal.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.