You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm a big program hoper, but I'm just going to stick to the Skinny guy routine. and no, I didn't buy that POS program.Originally posted by MetalFortress
I've no clue how anyone can even get measurements down to the 4th decimal. Anyways, I caught no squatting or deadlifting in your routine lately. Heavy squatting and deadlifting should be the cornerstone of your routine. I prefer having two workout days, one centered around squatting, and the other around deadlifting, and doing them like this, and doing my chest/triceps/shoulder stuff (usually just incline bench and military press) on deadlift day, and upper back/biceps (usually just a rack chin or pulldown type deal and barbell curls) on squat day.:
M Deadlift Day
W Squat Day
F Deadlift Day
M Squat Day
W Deadlift Day
F Squat Day
Oh, and time in the gym doesn't matter unless you're just being ridiculous and doing 10 sets of everything. 60 minutes is about par for the course, though I'm in for between 90-120 when I'm doing DC style training.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
He's up 10lbs, trust me, he's doing just fine.Ratisson said:Bling no offens but i look at this workout log and i laugh at u. Ur never going to get big doing this workout routine and that goes for all of u who follow a similar routine. The problem with this workout is that u arent pushing it hard enough. Ur muscles are never going to get bigger/defined by doing 3 sets of them 1-2 times per week. Its embarassing to see this post, but at least it gives me an idea of how confused all u guys are when u are looking to get big.
When i first started working out (in grade 9) i was one of the fortunate ones. The first thing my dad did for me was set me up with a personal trainer, which is what i recommend u do. He'll teach u how to workout properly and how to get big. Because when i look at this plan that u have i know u aren't getting bigger any time soon. For Workout #1 u can still do the exercises ur doing but u'll have to add more to it. If ur focused on getting ur upper body big then u will need to focus on shoulders, back, chest and core. So for chest u can do ur bench press but u will have to add two more exercises. Try dumbell fly's (when u do them make sure yoour wrists point in. do this 3 sets of ten. Then find another chest exercise, such as push ups. If u have a core ball i suggest u do them on this, with uir legs on the core ball and ur hands on the ground, if u dont have a core ball then do clap push ups.
The key to getting bigger for u is doing more exercises, u havent chosen enough. For you workout #1 u need to find 3 exercises for each muscle group that ur focusing on. So u will do ur bench press, then back , then shoulders, then keep ndoing this cycle of chest, back and shoulderrs untill u've done 3 of each then do core. If u do this workout 3 times a week (every other day) u WILL see improvements trust me. Then after all that is done, go put milk in the Blenda and make a protein shake!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You're right. It's embarassing to see your post.Ratisson said:Its embarassing to see this post
The perpetual voice of reason strikes again...Warboss Alex said:He's up 10lbs, trust me, he's doing just fine.![]()
MetalFortress said:I've no clue how anyone can even get measurements down to the 4th decimal.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.