sweetlybold
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How do you go about blind dates? Suggestions please. I got one coming up and I've never been on one. How much different from a regular date should I treat it?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Blind Dates
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Question: What makes it any different than any other date?
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
Wear a blindfold.
myfriendblu
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You dont have a decent idea of her IL in you, as opposed to meeting/knowing her before hand.
That to me is all the difference in the world.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So how do you do it with a woman you meet or know before hand? Do you talk to her? Do you ask her questions? Do you tell her about yourself? Do you exchange stories?
If you did, why the hell wouldn't you do the same thing with a woman on a blind date? Why make it so difficult?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Seeing that I would only go out with 1 out of 10 girls that I normally see, a blind date is a bad idea, most likely she's not going to be that hot.