sweetlybold
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How do you go about blind dates? Suggestions please. I got one coming up and I've never been on one. How much different from a regular date should I treat it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Question: What makes it any different than any other date?
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
Wear a blindfold.
myfriendblu
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You dont have a decent idea of her IL in you, as opposed to meeting/knowing her before hand.
That to me is all the difference in the world.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So how do you do it with a woman you meet or know before hand? Do you talk to her? Do you ask her questions? Do you tell her about yourself? Do you exchange stories?
If you did, why the hell wouldn't you do the same thing with a woman on a blind date? Why make it so difficult?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Seeing that I would only go out with 1 out of 10 girls that I normally see, a blind date is a bad idea, most likely she's not going to be that hot.