"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blind Date and Other girls

sanyo7878

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Hey Folks,

A buddy of mine's girlfriend has set me up a blind date for later this week. I saw a pic of the girl and she looks cute. She is a sorority girl and i'm not exactly the fraternity type (really not even close). I've never been on a blind date before. Not really worried, i'm going to try to loosten up and act my self. Any advice on blind dates from anyone? Please, if you are going to be an as$hole and flame this thread please don't even respond.

Also, I have a huge crush on this other girl. see the post:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=110699&referrerid=27598

Should i tell her about this blind date to make her jelous or whatever?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Phyzzle

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Any advice on blind dates from anyone?
I hope it's short and simple. No mini-golf or para-sailing. There might be zero chemistry. Just set aside 45 minutes to talk over coffee or a salad, to see if you can stand eachother.

Should i tell her about this blind date to make her jelous or whatever?
Go right ahead. I can't imagine it doing any good.

If you end up dating this girl regularly, that might make your crush interested. Even then, I doubt it.
 

sanyo7878

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Just went on my blind date. I think it went over all good. Got dinner with the couple that set us up and then went and got some coffee. The girl was really sweet. I couldn't get a great vibe on chemistry, but i didn't get any negative vibes from her. When I was dropping her off at her sorority house, I just stopped in the parking lot. I kind of wish i would have walked her to the door. But I asked he if she wanted to get together next week and she said yes and then i got her number and gave her a hug while still in the car. she was like "call me whenever you have time next week so we can get together". Sorry guys if i bored you all by posting this but i wanted to tell someone how my date went, lol.

any comments?
 
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