"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blew it... with a model

sanoj

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This may sound like a little bit of bragging, but getting attention from women is what this forum is about, right?


Last weekend I was on a hot streak!

Thursday I got a one night stand with a real hottie!

Friday night and Saturday morning I finally slept with a girl i've been working on for a while now.

Saturday night my confidence was sky high as some of you may understand. I got kinda picky on giving signals to girls I normally would be crazy about a year ago, because I knew I could get the best looking ones in there.

Suddenly a stunner was texting on her cell phone in front of me, and I said hi to her. We talked and danced a little bit. I did'nt kiss her and I barely touched her and even though she ended up in my messy apartment for some "night food".

We ended up eating and talking for about an hour and then she went home. In other words: I was'nt man enough to get laid that night.

After she said she was a model I guess I subcounciously felt unsuperior and started negging her even though she was already in my apartment. I did'nt do much kino and was'nt aggressive enough, witch I regret, but there was definitely sexual tension going on. The next day I really felt like crap for not sealing the deal.

To my big surprise I met her at the university and it turns out that she is taking the same course as me! I approached her and we talked. She seemed a bit embarrased, but it seemed like she liked that i approached her and was interested in what I had to say.

I am afraid that I am going to be friend-zoned, because of my lack of sexual aggressiveness.

Where do I go from here? start kinoing her in class and asking her on a date?

I'll rather be rejected that being friend-zoned!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Listen kid,

Who in the HELL says you can't start the sexual ish in the dreaded "friend zone"??? You dudes are crybabies over meeting a girl once??? Who cares if she becomes a friend? She may have hot friends and if the sexual ish doesn't work with her try her friends and she may feel jealous you picked them over her!! Friends with benefits zone to BONE! If she says "let's just be friends" agree and say you didn't do it for me..I like my WOMEN more sensual and to show affection. Then tell her you hope she's not like a wet noodle with other dudes.............And stop your cryin for chrissakes! Damn. You got one get another!!
 

LinkinParkROX

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You could try (very) subtly starting kino and escalating and see if that works.
 
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