"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Blew it... with a model

sanoj

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This may sound like a little bit of bragging, but getting attention from women is what this forum is about, right?


Last weekend I was on a hot streak!

Thursday I got a one night stand with a real hottie!

Friday night and Saturday morning I finally slept with a girl i've been working on for a while now.

Saturday night my confidence was sky high as some of you may understand. I got kinda picky on giving signals to girls I normally would be crazy about a year ago, because I knew I could get the best looking ones in there.

Suddenly a stunner was texting on her cell phone in front of me, and I said hi to her. We talked and danced a little bit. I did'nt kiss her and I barely touched her and even though she ended up in my messy apartment for some "night food".

We ended up eating and talking for about an hour and then she went home. In other words: I was'nt man enough to get laid that night.

After she said she was a model I guess I subcounciously felt unsuperior and started negging her even though she was already in my apartment. I did'nt do much kino and was'nt aggressive enough, witch I regret, but there was definitely sexual tension going on. The next day I really felt like crap for not sealing the deal.

To my big surprise I met her at the university and it turns out that she is taking the same course as me! I approached her and we talked. She seemed a bit embarrased, but it seemed like she liked that i approached her and was interested in what I had to say.

I am afraid that I am going to be friend-zoned, because of my lack of sexual aggressiveness.

Where do I go from here? start kinoing her in class and asking her on a date?

I'll rather be rejected that being friend-zoned!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Listen kid,

Who in the HELL says you can't start the sexual ish in the dreaded "friend zone"??? You dudes are crybabies over meeting a girl once??? Who cares if she becomes a friend? She may have hot friends and if the sexual ish doesn't work with her try her friends and she may feel jealous you picked them over her!! Friends with benefits zone to BONE! If she says "let's just be friends" agree and say you didn't do it for me..I like my WOMEN more sensual and to show affection. Then tell her you hope she's not like a wet noodle with other dudes.............And stop your cryin for chrissakes! Damn. You got one get another!!
 

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You could try (very) subtly starting kino and escalating and see if that works.
 
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