"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blemishes

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I'm pretty sure this would be a health topic, otherwise feel free to move it.

To the point, I get pimple-like blemishes on my upper chest, and I'd really like to get rid of them. I shower every day, twice if I'm going out, I don't eat greasy foods, I 'm not going through puberty, any suggestions on treating them? Really no one notices them but me, even in bed, but my self esteem is boosted the better I look ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ironic. I came here for the same thing. Im not sure if its exactly the same but hear me out.

I have bumps on my upper arms(triceps). I have had them forever but now that I am in good shape I want to get rid of them. They look kinda like the bumps women get on their legs if they shave near their ankles except I dont shave my arms. They dont hurt itch or bother me at all. Im wondering if their is any cream or anything that could get rid of them?
 

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I get those too. One (well, a few) things I've done have seemed to work:

- When in the shower, use a loofah, washcloth, or other means of removing dead skin

- I use Nature's Cure, but I'm sure any acne product would work

- Use it twice a day

I've done that and have only spots on my back left.

Good luck.
 

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skel: i have them too!!!! i went to the doctor about them a few years ago (actually about something else. but i asked while i was there) he said they were called milia and he said its nothing to worry about and that there aint really much you can do...
BUUT....my dad had the same thing and he took cod liver oil tablet for ages and his seemed to go down.
ive been taking some for a while..and mine have gone down but they are still there...
heres a link i just found...

http://www.dermadoctor.com/pages/newsletter56.asp?AID=5133
 

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thanks for the reply. Im not so sure if its milia. The link describes them as white but they seem to be dark or red.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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