"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blemishes

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I'm pretty sure this would be a health topic, otherwise feel free to move it.

To the point, I get pimple-like blemishes on my upper chest, and I'd really like to get rid of them. I shower every day, twice if I'm going out, I don't eat greasy foods, I 'm not going through puberty, any suggestions on treating them? Really no one notices them but me, even in bed, but my self esteem is boosted the better I look ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ironic. I came here for the same thing. Im not sure if its exactly the same but hear me out.

I have bumps on my upper arms(triceps). I have had them forever but now that I am in good shape I want to get rid of them. They look kinda like the bumps women get on their legs if they shave near their ankles except I dont shave my arms. They dont hurt itch or bother me at all. Im wondering if their is any cream or anything that could get rid of them?
 

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I get those too. One (well, a few) things I've done have seemed to work:

- When in the shower, use a loofah, washcloth, or other means of removing dead skin

- I use Nature's Cure, but I'm sure any acne product would work

- Use it twice a day

I've done that and have only spots on my back left.

Good luck.
 

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skel: i have them too!!!! i went to the doctor about them a few years ago (actually about something else. but i asked while i was there) he said they were called milia and he said its nothing to worry about and that there aint really much you can do...
BUUT....my dad had the same thing and he took cod liver oil tablet for ages and his seemed to go down.
ive been taking some for a while..and mine have gone down but they are still there...
heres a link i just found...

http://www.dermadoctor.com/pages/newsletter56.asp?AID=5133
 

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thanks for the reply. Im not so sure if its milia. The link describes them as white but they seem to be dark or red.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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