"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bleh, I find it easier flirting with girls im not interested in..

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Maybe it's the whole IDK factor. Like there is this girl who asked me to prom, she is pretty... a lot of guys would want to get with her, she is pretty nice and a popular, the only thing really WRONG with her is she is a little overweight, but she still has a nice face and still has a nice body i mean she isnt big wilma or anything.. and a nice tan, and tan chicks i usually like... but for some reason i cant get into her. however flirting with her is so easy. like she always comes to me, i dont really ignore her, i just act cool mosto f the time, and i say sexual things a lot. i will just chill there and she will just start rubbing up on me and ****.... and for some reason i flirt back.. even though i know im leading her on.... but then i see some chick who im actually interested in... like this blonde girl, she is really cute.. and fit... nice ass... pretty down chick... and she gives me a little interest sometimes... but like escalating **** is just so akward with her. like i tried touching her back and she kind of looked at me like wtf? like idk... i can never find the right moment with these kinda chicks... and its like any girl i like things get akward, but of course any girl i dont likethey are all over me and it's so easily to control them... like a lot of decent chicks like me... but i am still like extremely picky. it sucks sometimes..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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your not interested in her, so there is no fear of rejection.

I mean isn't getting rejected the number one thing that holds you back from going up to a girl your actually interested in?
 
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Yeah I find myself flirting, or maybe teasing, naturally girls I'm not interested in because there's no challenge there really. Then I think, "why can't I be like that more with chicks I'm into?"

Because you get afraid, you think you've got something to lose.
 
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This is a stage that all guys go through. Sometimes forcing yourself into situations with women you are attracted to works out surprisingly well. If not, just go back and try again. Eventually you will gain that confidence to approach any girl you'd like. Believe it or not, you're going to feel more comfortable approaching women you are attracted to as opposed to women you aren't! It's a great thing, but you really have to go out of your way to conversate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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