"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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have u guys ever just blanked out when talkin to a chick?

this happened to me today. i went up to this one chick, cute cute, i said hi then once she said hi, i completely blanked out. i was like WUT THE ****? where is my mentality. i didnt know wut happened. i knew i jsut blanked out, i knew i blanked out. and as i was talkin i knew everythang i did wrong. i was like WUT THE ****? ever blanked out on a chick? **** sucks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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heh o yea, when this happens i just go alright il talk to yea later, so i dont dig my self in a ditch
 
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true and it is, so i keep it short just do little bit of small talk (hows your day ect) before you go so its not totaly wierd enless in that time you snap back into it , which for me usualy wont happen
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol we keep goin back and forth..... i feel that the more awkward situations you get in the easyer it is to get out of them (what doesnt kill you makes you stronger type stuff)
 
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its our own converstation. lol..............

i know wut u mean. itll be easier but the thang is "who really purposely make them go into an awkward moment" if they did, it wouldnt really be awkward tho.
 
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Never get into that awkward silence, if you sense it's going there, # close, or just say, "I have to get going, bye".

Always have a few lines that you memorized if that happens. In this case, randomly switching the convo is better than going into silence.

An example of these saver lines could be, "So what did you do this weekend", or "What are you going to do this weekend?".
 
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it wasnt awkward silence. i was kinda laughin inside of my head. i was talkin, i know tat, but i wasnt thinking wut i was talkin. it was like an out of body experience. i was talkin but i dont think tat was me, cuz i said afc thangs and my mind was like dont say tat, and i do. or somethang like tat. its nuts...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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