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[Inquire]

have u guys ever just blanked out when talkin to a chick?

this happened to me today. i went up to this one chick, cute cute, i said hi then once she said hi, i completely blanked out. i was like WUT THE ****? where is my mentality. i didnt know wut happened. i knew i jsut blanked out, i knew i blanked out. and as i was talkin i knew everythang i did wrong. i was like WUT THE ****? ever blanked out on a chick? **** sucks.

 

[KaminoSS]

heh o yea, when this happens i just go alright il talk to yea later, so i dont dig my self in a ditch

 

[Inquire]

but it would be weird if i said hi then say bye.

 

[KaminoSS]

true and it is, so i keep it short just do little bit of small talk (hows your day ect) before you go so its not totaly wierd enless in that time you snap back into it , which for me usualy wont happen

 

[Inquire]

^same here, but it was hella awkward fo me.

 

[KaminoSS]

lol we keep goin back and forth..... i feel that the more awkward situations you get in the easyer it is to get out of them (what doesnt kill you makes you stronger type stuff)

 

[Inquire]

its our own converstation. lol..............

i know wut u mean. itll be easier but the thang is "who really purposely make them go into an awkward moment" if they did, it wouldnt really be awkward tho.

 

[Zod]

Never get into that awkward silence, if you sense it's going there, # close, or just say, "I have to get going, bye".

Always have a few lines that you memorized if that happens. In this case, randomly switching the convo is better than going into silence.

An example of these saver lines could be, "So what did you do this weekend", or "What are you going to do this weekend?".

 

[Inquire]

it wasnt awkward silence. i was kinda laughin inside of my head. i was talkin, i know tat, but i wasnt thinking wut i was talkin. it was like an out of body experience. i was talkin but i dont think tat was me, cuz i said afc thangs and my mind was like dont say tat, and i do. or somethang like tat. its nuts...

 

[bossdog]

inexperience