"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, to add a little preface, I've been talking to this girl for a while, and we've both established a mutual attraction to each other. Luckily, we've also established that we're both not interested in a relationship, but everything else is kind of up in the air. I'm going to be hanging out with her soon (probably next day or so) and I want to hook up with her, however I face a very unique issue; I've never made out with a girl before (which is sad considering I'm 21 and a model, but I've lived a very sheltered life :) ). Should I tell her I've never made out with a girl and see if she's willing to provide "insight", or just make a go at it? I know if I just try and pretend I know what I'm doing, I'll either look like an inexperienced fool, or she'll just assume we have no physical chemistry. However, if I go the other route, I'll also look inexperienced and kind of like a pansy. Any push in the right direction would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've KISSED women before, just not an actual make out session, ergo no tongue.(It's also been about two years since any kissing....Don't ask.) I just don't want to completely turn her off, but I'd also like to have a girl teach me how to be a really good kisser. Always a viable asset.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would have to say to just go with the flow dude, Dont worry about it. Im pretty sure it would come to you as you are in moment, u can adjust..lol..
 
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