"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bizarre Prediciment

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Okay, to add a little preface, I've been talking to this girl for a while, and we've both established a mutual attraction to each other. Luckily, we've also established that we're both not interested in a relationship, but everything else is kind of up in the air. I'm going to be hanging out with her soon (probably next day or so) and I want to hook up with her, however I face a very unique issue; I've never made out with a girl before (which is sad considering I'm 21 and a model, but I've lived a very sheltered life :) ). Should I tell her I've never made out with a girl and see if she's willing to provide "insight", or just make a go at it? I know if I just try and pretend I know what I'm doing, I'll either look like an inexperienced fool, or she'll just assume we have no physical chemistry. However, if I go the other route, I'll also look inexperienced and kind of like a pansy. Any push in the right direction would be greatly appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've KISSED women before, just not an actual make out session, ergo no tongue.(It's also been about two years since any kissing....Don't ask.) I just don't want to completely turn her off, but I'd also like to have a girl teach me how to be a really good kisser. Always a viable asset.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would have to say to just go with the flow dude, Dont worry about it. Im pretty sure it would come to you as you are in moment, u can adjust..lol..
 
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