kickureface
Master Don Juan
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how dangerous is this? i knw they monitor speeds, but do you think they will actively search what you are dling?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ace of Flames said:Well, maybe they can track you down, maybe they can't. Whatever.
But I doubt the college is gonna give a damn about you downloading copyrighted stuff. Its not their job. You aren't stealing THEIR copyrighted stuff, right? As long as it isn't kiddie porn or something, you should be fine.
The college itself didn't b!tch at them for it. That's all I was saying.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Ace of Flames said:The college itself didn't b!tch at them for it. That's all I was saying.
Doesn't matter. Many colleges have (hard to enforce) rules for not taking part in such acts. However when pressed, they will give up the student(s) quicker than a heartbeat which has even worse consiquences."The University System did comply with the subpoenas and provided the names that RIAA was seeking," John Diamond, spokesman for the system, said Friday. Diamond said the system protects the privacy of its students, but was compelled to release the names by the court orders.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
During orientation at my school they did... In their safety demo, they told us to avoid such stuff.Ace of Flames said:The college itself didn't b!tch at them for it. That's all I was saying.
gmillar said:Hahahahaha it's legal in Canada bltches. I've downloaded more games than Best Buy keeps in stock, and over 7,000 songs.
Torrents? What on earth are you talking about? We do not know of such things in this forum.Stuntmann said:Where can I search for torrents?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.