"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Biting the bullet...going online

The LadyKiller

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I have decided to give online dating a shot. Two questions:

1. Which site should I use? Not necessarily a free site (I know PoF is crap, OkCupid is meh). Match.com is popular, eHarmony too. JDate is perhaps an up-and-comer. I don't know a lot about these sites, which one is best?

2. How do I get some responses online? I tried searching this and got Ninja's canned stuff. Not going to use it, want them to see me, not some PUA.

Thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dust 2 Dust

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What will often make or break your profile and chances are your pictures. Try to post the best pics possible. Online dating for the most part is a meat market.

Another important thing is don't use generic openers or messages. Never message a woman with "hi, hello, or hey."

I use the 3 strike rule. If I can't get at least a number close within 3 messages I move on.
 

The LadyKiller

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Thanks, good advice. Will keep it in mind. Anyone else with advice as well?
 
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