Biting the bullet...going online

[The LadyKiller]

I have decided to give online dating a shot. Two questions:

1. Which site should I use? Not necessarily a free site (I know PoF is crap, OkCupid is meh). Match.com is popular, eHarmony too. JDate is perhaps an up-and-comer. I don't know a lot about these sites, which one is best?

2. How do I get some responses online? I tried searching this and got Ninja's canned stuff. Not going to use it, want them to see me, not some PUA.

Thoughts?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

What will often make or break your profile and chances are your pictures. Try to post the best pics possible. Online dating for the most part is a meat market.

Another important thing is don't use generic openers or messages. Never message a woman with "hi, hello, or hey."

I use the 3 strike rule. If I can't get at least a number close within 3 messages I move on.

 

[The LadyKiller]

Thanks, good advice. Will keep it in mind. Anyone else with advice as well?