"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Biting the bullet...going online

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The LadyKiller

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I have decided to give online dating a shot. Two questions:

1. Which site should I use? Not necessarily a free site (I know PoF is crap, OkCupid is meh). Match.com is popular, eHarmony too. JDate is perhaps an up-and-comer. I don't know a lot about these sites, which one is best?

2. How do I get some responses online? I tried searching this and got Ninja's canned stuff. Not going to use it, want them to see me, not some PUA.

Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dust 2 Dust

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What will often make or break your profile and chances are your pictures. Try to post the best pics possible. Online dating for the most part is a meat market.

Another important thing is don't use generic openers or messages. Never message a woman with "hi, hello, or hey."

I use the 3 strike rule. If I can't get at least a number close within 3 messages I move on.
 
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Thanks, good advice. Will keep it in mind. Anyone else with advice as well?
 
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