"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bit of banter with the boys.....(Trigger warner: Swear words, insults, banter)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fuzz, although your input is appreciated, I think you missed the point of the thread there buddy! :):);)

Banter between healthy red blooded males. It's what a lot of these snowflakes seemed to not grow up with nor appear to have in their lives now. Healthy back and forth banter which sometimes is harsh, sometimes cross the line, sometimes involves direct criticism. Sometimes you're winding your mates up, sometimes it's a rival. Sometimes it's sarcastic, sometimes it's ironic. Dark humor in the most "inappropriate" circumstances (a sign of strength.) I think you have a generation of men (or perhaps those who only have online friendships?) who no longer are involved in team sports (martial arts can be considered team as you work with others) who instead go to the gym alone with headphones on and do their bench presses and their squats and write their results in their notebooks......who probably spend more time on social media where everything is policed and you have to be politically correct, than hanging out at with their gang and just shooting the ****e with anything goes piss taking............

Soys who proclaim "you are not a real man" if you insult somebody or if you criticise somebody directly "you must have a sad and bitter life" :):):(. holy ****e man, just imagine saying that to the lads that you grew up with if (hey guy, you must be really sad and you are not a well rounded person if you speak to me like that" o_O Imagine what the dialogue in any of the above videos would be like if the one on the receiving end retorted with "hey you must have a sad life" seriously imagine that dialogue!! bit on the female energy spectrum no...................PRISON? THE ARMY? THE STREET? You better know how to kick back.

In fact, Jordan Peterson addresses this in 12 rules I 'm just recalling. The working class man will fvcking probe you and test you TO SEE WHAT YOU ARE MADE OF AND TO SEE IF YOU CAN BE RELIED ON.........yes, it was LUNCHBUCKET who couldn't take it and not only fell apart like a Chinese bicycle but found that the good natured bantering (testing) changed into outright hostility THIS IS THE FVCKING NATURE OF MEN . YOU ARE DESPISED BY OTHER MEN IF YOU CRY LIKE A SOYBOY (AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT THE SOYBOYS, FEMINISTS AND SJW'S ARE TRYING TO ELIMINATE......"TOXIC MASCULINITY!!" "THE PATRIARCHY!!")

Jordan Peterson: How to be a man....the story of lunchbucket


The importance of having thick skin with Jocko


Lunchbucket (JBPWAVE)

 
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Hmm, I'm not sure what to post then because I don't know any good examples that were ever broadcast or posted to YT. I have experienced what you said though.

Friend [32 y/o]: I haven't seen Krull but I saw Lord of The Rings
Me [40 y/o]: Lord of The Rings is for fags dude, Krull and Willow are a million times better, don't be a fag ok.
Friend [32 y/o]: I fail to see how watching a movie denotes anything about my sexuality.
Me [40 y/o]: what?

Dungeons & Dragons session [the last one, years ago]

Friend: Can you help me fight these goblins?
Me: I gotta go guys, its been fun, sorry to interrupt the game, oh btw I open that big 'dragon' door before I leave hehe.
SJW Friend of Friend: Ummm your character wouldn't actually do that!
Me: It says here my character is evil, so yeah I do.
SJW Friend of Friend: Ummm, well I grab you and stop you then.
Me: Fine, I throw acid in your face.
SJW Friend of Friend: Ummm, you wouldn't actually do that because in the game we're all friends, so...
Me: Yeah well you grabbed me, tough luck. Rolled a 20 ;)
SJW Friend of Friend: I CAST CONTROL ON HIM [apparently it works]
SJW Friend of Friend: OK I WANT YOU TO EXPLAIN TO GROUP WHY YOU DID THAT... NOW!!!
Me: Are we still playing a game?
SJW Friend of Friend: DO IT, EXPLAIN NOW!!
Me: You were acting so gay I couldn't help myself, happy?
SJW Friend of Friend: OMG, GTFO HERE, HOW DARE YOU, I WILL NOT TOLERATE THESE SLURS AGAINST HOMOSEXUALS, THIS IS THE FOURTH TIME YOU'VE SAID IT!!!![proceeds to have a temper tantrum / melt down].
Me: What slur?
SJW Friend of Friend: GET OUT NOW! [This wasn't his house but he was the 'alpha nerd'].

SJW Friend of Friend is a fat slob, no job, sleeps on ppls couches, TERRIBLE hygiene and is early 30's. Brief marriage [less than 6 mo] to a warpig ended in her leaving him for another woman.

I'm used to hanging around guys that DNGAF what was said... come back to Canada and I have to watch everything I say because this gen is laying vocabulary traps and trying to find reasons to be offended. Sad and a little bit scary.

I guess my personality is closest to this guy:


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think I get where you're coming from. I was into break dance and thats why it comes very naturally to me. Part of being on the floor and challenging someone else in a nightclub involves this 'banter' or competitiveness without throwing punches. You learn to do it and make it a part of your routine.


Watch Phil at 1:08

From 1:00 on [everyone walks away friends]
 
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I think something like this illustrates the point


Good advice for this generation
 
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I think this gen has been sheltered from bullying too long. This used to make nerdy kids stronger.
 
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The Inbetweeners funnies insults (top Youtube comment "a lot of people (americans) don't get British humor)


Jay and Will's interactions


Neil's funniest moments

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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