"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bisexual girls- more trouble than worth?

HoldenCaulfield 420

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So I've known this (hot) girl for a long time as we've had a bunch of classes together. I initially placed her in the "friend zone" rather than try to get with her since I knew that she was bisexual and had a somewhat messed up childhood. I never tried to be any kind of Don Juan or really do anything special to attract her. I was not AFC since I wasn't trying to get with her anyway. I just treated her as a friend. We studied together a lot during the year and hung out a few other times. I think the fact that she's really hot and I made no real effort to attract or have sex with her created more of a mystery in her mind.

Now that it's summer we don't see each other all the time in class the way we used to. She's called a few times wondering what I've been up to and wanting to get together. We haven't actually seen each other since school ended. She jokes around a lot about sexual things, how her bedroom is all messed up, how loud she gets during sex, etc. Am I correct in interpreting this that she's looking to me as a **** buddy? Or is she just wanting attention?

This site has a lot of good advice, but I don't know how much of it would apply to a bi girl. Should I just start being more ****y and funny, etc? I feel like I should stop acting like a friend and become more of a DJ if I want to keep her moving in the direction she's been going.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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darthsidious

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take it from me pal, bisexual girls are typically wh*res. they'll bang both male and female, and if they have a boyfriend she feels its okay to have an on the side relationship with a female "just because"

they're weirder, messed up and infact for some reason they're usually bipolar. (hot and cold emotions.)

bang her, but seek nothing else as she's just a mental nutcase.
 

DrDope

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I agree with the above advice. I have one of these right now. I don't believe she's been with a woman in a while but it's not out of the question that she might get with one again. What a shame. I really don't like lesbos very much but I do like banging them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sh0t

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for the last 2 years, they've been all i've tried to really go for


no trouble required
 

sk24iam

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bisexual girls can be fun. be careful though, don't get involved longterm.
 

HoldenCaulfield 420

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Thanks for the advice all. I'm sure that she is/will continue having sex with other chicks, but I'm fine with that.

You're right darthsidious she's definitely a ho, but then so am I when it comes down to it, so I might as well go for it. She does seem to be bipolar. I'm definitely not planning on anything long term.
 

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I think you guys are generalizing a bit too much.

my recent (now ex) girlfriend is bisexual and hooked up with 3 or 4 of my friends in front of me on seperate occasions. She refused to have a threesome because she said she didn't like the idea of me kissing another girl, and she only hooked up with other girls because she knew I didn't care. She would have stopped in a second if I had told her that it bothered me.

she was a great girl. not all bisexual girls are messed up. that said, this one just seems like a sunshine girl, but you should still try to hook up with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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