"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bisexual girls- more trouble than worth?

HoldenCaulfield 420

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So I've known this (hot) girl for a long time as we've had a bunch of classes together. I initially placed her in the "friend zone" rather than try to get with her since I knew that she was bisexual and had a somewhat messed up childhood. I never tried to be any kind of Don Juan or really do anything special to attract her. I was not AFC since I wasn't trying to get with her anyway. I just treated her as a friend. We studied together a lot during the year and hung out a few other times. I think the fact that she's really hot and I made no real effort to attract or have sex with her created more of a mystery in her mind.

Now that it's summer we don't see each other all the time in class the way we used to. She's called a few times wondering what I've been up to and wanting to get together. We haven't actually seen each other since school ended. She jokes around a lot about sexual things, how her bedroom is all messed up, how loud she gets during sex, etc. Am I correct in interpreting this that she's looking to me as a **** buddy? Or is she just wanting attention?

This site has a lot of good advice, but I don't know how much of it would apply to a bi girl. Should I just start being more ****y and funny, etc? I feel like I should stop acting like a friend and become more of a DJ if I want to keep her moving in the direction she's been going.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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darthsidious

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take it from me pal, bisexual girls are typically wh*res. they'll bang both male and female, and if they have a boyfriend she feels its okay to have an on the side relationship with a female "just because"

they're weirder, messed up and infact for some reason they're usually bipolar. (hot and cold emotions.)

bang her, but seek nothing else as she's just a mental nutcase.
 

DrDope

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I agree with the above advice. I have one of these right now. I don't believe she's been with a woman in a while but it's not out of the question that she might get with one again. What a shame. I really don't like lesbos very much but I do like banging them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sh0t

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for the last 2 years, they've been all i've tried to really go for


no trouble required
 

sk24iam

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bisexual girls can be fun. be careful though, don't get involved longterm.
 

HoldenCaulfield 420

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Thanks for the advice all. I'm sure that she is/will continue having sex with other chicks, but I'm fine with that.

You're right darthsidious she's definitely a ho, but then so am I when it comes down to it, so I might as well go for it. She does seem to be bipolar. I'm definitely not planning on anything long term.
 

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I think you guys are generalizing a bit too much.

my recent (now ex) girlfriend is bisexual and hooked up with 3 or 4 of my friends in front of me on seperate occasions. She refused to have a threesome because she said she didn't like the idea of me kissing another girl, and she only hooked up with other girls because she knew I didn't care. She would have stopped in a second if I had told her that it bothered me.

she was a great girl. not all bisexual girls are messed up. that said, this one just seems like a sunshine girl, but you should still try to hook up with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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