"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Birthday Present

Bends

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So, I'm one one those guys (probably like most of you) who don't think a girl should be spoiled with gifts and stuff. However, I believe her birthday is an exception.
I met this girl a few weeks before I went to study abroad this autumn. At first I just saw her as something fun before I left but I the more time I spent with her, the more I liked her and I'm afraid she now has become somewhat of a "oneitis". We speak on the phone sometimes and I know that she misses me just as much as I miss her. But we have both agreed on that we are allowed to see other people and that we're NOT a couple. Now, I wont be goming home again until the beginning of May and she's now going to travel Asia for a few months. I know she'll be approached a lot of times during that time...
Her birthday is in December and I want to send her something little so that she'll keep thinking of me until we meet again. Suggestions?
I know, I shouldn't be worrying that much about her and try to see other girls while I'm in a different country and all that. But it's hard man!
So, what do you say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nvictor

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What I've learned: girlfriend = gift, she deserve it; not a girlfriend = she must show that she deserve it.
 

Cod3r

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A card with something simple in it...

"You know what, I like you"



-Cod3r
 
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