Here is the deal. I just started dating this girl. We are both pretty into each other but it is still really early in the game, we have only been on a handful of dates, already slept together. Her b-day is in a couple of days and I want to do something for her, but not too much. I would prefer taking her to something fun rather than buy her merchandise. I was thinking of a hockey game but the next home game is in over a week so it might be kind of late. Any ideas? I live in a mid-sized city so there are plenty of things to pick from.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Birthday ideas
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