Here is the deal. I just started dating this girl. We are both pretty into each other but it is still really early in the game, we have only been on a handful of dates, already slept together. Her b-day is in a couple of days and I want to do something for her, but not too much. I would prefer taking her to something fun rather than buy her merchandise. I was thinking of a hockey game but the next home game is in over a week so it might be kind of late. Any ideas? I live in a mid-sized city so there are plenty of things to pick from.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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