"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Birthday Blues

El MonoLoco

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ARG!!!!


My B-Day is on Tues, I guess that's tomorrow now.
(I work nights so my days run together)

Anyway I have found myself so busy I never made any plans.
I'm broke as sh*t - damn bills caught me at the wrong time.
And to make it worse I got Jury Duty this morning.....

What a time to jump back into the game huh......


Anyway I was just looking for some ideas on how to celebrate...
what would you guys do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Tomatoes

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You seem busy. Save it for the weekend. Friday/ Sat night.

If you go out tuesday you will just get stressed because you have alot on. Go out when your free to chill. Go to some bars with some mates. Be the B-Day boy and have some fun with the ladies.
 

El MonoLoco

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You see going out on the weekends is a HUGE problem for me.....
I work....I work thurs-Mon and I don't start work until 11pm!


Going out on a Tues isn't so bad, I live in a college town and Tues is like the 1st Saturday of the week, as is Thursday the 2nd Saturday then there is your normal Fri/Sat.


Tues is my Sat

:(
 

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Originally posted by El MonoLoco
You see going out on the weekends is a HUGE problem for me.....
I work....I work thurs-Mon and I don't start work until 11pm!


Going out on a Tues isn't so bad, I live in a college town and Tues is like the 1st Saturday of the week, as is Thursday the 2nd Saturday then there is your normal Fri/Sat.


Tues is my Sat

:(
If tuesday is the student night and that fits your work. Thats great. Whats the problem?

Money wise. Surely you have an overdraft or can borrow £30 off a mate?

Jury duty. **** it. You were ill.
Ring your friends now and arrange tomorrow night.
 
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