"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Birthday Blues

El MonoLoco

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ARG!!!!


My B-Day is on Tues, I guess that's tomorrow now.
(I work nights so my days run together)

Anyway I have found myself so busy I never made any plans.
I'm broke as sh*t - damn bills caught me at the wrong time.
And to make it worse I got Jury Duty this morning.....

What a time to jump back into the game huh......


Anyway I was just looking for some ideas on how to celebrate...
what would you guys do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tomatoes

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You seem busy. Save it for the weekend. Friday/ Sat night.

If you go out tuesday you will just get stressed because you have alot on. Go out when your free to chill. Go to some bars with some mates. Be the B-Day boy and have some fun with the ladies.
 

El MonoLoco

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You see going out on the weekends is a HUGE problem for me.....
I work....I work thurs-Mon and I don't start work until 11pm!


Going out on a Tues isn't so bad, I live in a college town and Tues is like the 1st Saturday of the week, as is Thursday the 2nd Saturday then there is your normal Fri/Sat.


Tues is my Sat

:(
 

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Originally posted by El MonoLoco
You see going out on the weekends is a HUGE problem for me.....
I work....I work thurs-Mon and I don't start work until 11pm!


Going out on a Tues isn't so bad, I live in a college town and Tues is like the 1st Saturday of the week, as is Thursday the 2nd Saturday then there is your normal Fri/Sat.


Tues is my Sat

:(
If tuesday is the student night and that fits your work. Thats great. Whats the problem?

Money wise. Surely you have an overdraft or can borrow £30 off a mate?

Jury duty. **** it. You were ill.
Ring your friends now and arrange tomorrow night.
 
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