"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Birthday Blues

El MonoLoco

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ARG!!!!


My B-Day is on Tues, I guess that's tomorrow now.
(I work nights so my days run together)

Anyway I have found myself so busy I never made any plans.
I'm broke as sh*t - damn bills caught me at the wrong time.
And to make it worse I got Jury Duty this morning.....

What a time to jump back into the game huh......


Anyway I was just looking for some ideas on how to celebrate...
what would you guys do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tomatoes

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You seem busy. Save it for the weekend. Friday/ Sat night.

If you go out tuesday you will just get stressed because you have alot on. Go out when your free to chill. Go to some bars with some mates. Be the B-Day boy and have some fun with the ladies.
 

El MonoLoco

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You see going out on the weekends is a HUGE problem for me.....
I work....I work thurs-Mon and I don't start work until 11pm!


Going out on a Tues isn't so bad, I live in a college town and Tues is like the 1st Saturday of the week, as is Thursday the 2nd Saturday then there is your normal Fri/Sat.


Tues is my Sat

:(
 

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Originally posted by El MonoLoco
You see going out on the weekends is a HUGE problem for me.....
I work....I work thurs-Mon and I don't start work until 11pm!


Going out on a Tues isn't so bad, I live in a college town and Tues is like the 1st Saturday of the week, as is Thursday the 2nd Saturday then there is your normal Fri/Sat.


Tues is my Sat

:(
If tuesday is the student night and that fits your work. Thats great. Whats the problem?

Money wise. Surely you have an overdraft or can borrow £30 off a mate?

Jury duty. **** it. You were ill.
Ring your friends now and arrange tomorrow night.
 
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