just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Especially under 18s.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Birmingham, England anyone?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I knock around there from time to time.
Try Carpe PM, they meet up there quite alot.
Try Carpe PM, they meet up there quite alot.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, i live in sutton coldfield, bout 30 mins away from the bullring.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
I know sutton, its near me. Do u pick up girls there?
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Yep 
. What part of birmz are you from?
. What part of birmz are you from?"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
I was in Sutton today, I was suprised at how many nice girls there was. I only approached one girl though, and didn't manage to number close.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, we do have our fair share of sexy girls