just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Especially under 18s.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Birmingham, England anyone?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
I knock around there from time to time.
Try Carpe PM, they meet up there quite alot.
Try Carpe PM, they meet up there quite alot.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, i live in sutton coldfield, bout 30 mins away from the bullring.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
I know sutton, its near me. Do u pick up girls there?
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Yep 
. What part of birmz are you from?
. What part of birmz are you from?"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
I was in Sutton today, I was suprised at how many nice girls there was. I only approached one girl though, and didn't manage to number close.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, we do have our fair share of sexy girls