There's this girl that sits with me at lunch. She also sits next to me in English and Religion. She's so bipolar, I don't get it. One moment she's smiling and talking to me, the next she's lightly making fun of me. I've called her out on it twice in front of people leaving her blushing. After that, she quits for a couple of days, but now she still does it. Now I just ignore her when she's being a ***** to me. I act like I don't hear her. What else is there to do?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bipolar *****
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
she digs you.
supajsilver2
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she seems awkwardly uncomfortable around you, definitely a sign that she digs you. good call on that penkitten.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
shes a young girl with hormones, she likes alot of guys secretly.
what is she doing that this website isnt suggesting you do? she smiles at you to flirt and then she neghits you.
come on, pick up on it already.
what is she doing that this website isnt suggesting you do? she smiles at you to flirt and then she neghits you.
come on, pick up on it already.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Shes not bipolar...dont say that. The fact that YOU cant take her making fun of you makes you a p*ssy to her. Basically shes negging you and youre failing. Neg her back, play around. Dont be so serious and ignore her like youre offended. Come on now kids, yall know better.
XSilverStarboyX
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Ive come very close to dating a bipolar girl. I got played without realizing it. One minute she would have done ANYTHING for me, the next she was a sadistic psycho *****.
Viper
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That's not being bipolar. Being bipolar means that a person is in one mood and suddenly jumps into another mood, basically, they have severe mood swings.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
bipolar people are usually grandiose, loud people with big plans that they have no way of accomplishing...big dreamers out of touch with reality, so they tend to act on impulses and do random big things like try and rob a bank and just give up and sit on the curb when they get sprayed with the red ink or a cop shows up.
anyways shes not bipolar, she digs you and you need to keep the flirt up on your side.
anyways shes not bipolar, she digs you and you need to keep the flirt up on your side.
XSilverStarboyX
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Actually, the girl Im talking about told me she was bipolar and she had the severe mood swingsEiljwa said:
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
well either way this sounds like something you should be able to handle
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
She told you she was bipolar?
I'd treat her like my big brother that I found out still thinks the easter bunny was real after he turned 25.
Just believing her, and than going off and telling all of us tells you how strung up she's got you.
Don't call her a b!tch because your being played. There are mature guys on this forum who still can't get past that point... yet they remain on this site to get advice while trash talking women... Go figure.
Every girl has severe mood swings. Some girls are violently agressive. Some are alcoholics.... if they only say they are, than most likely it's only for attention. This girl, it's for attention for sure... no girl who had BPD would readily admit it to a guy she is interested in.
She likes you, do something about it.
I'd treat her like my big brother that I found out still thinks the easter bunny was real after he turned 25.
Just believing her, and than going off and telling all of us tells you how strung up she's got you.
Don't call her a b!tch because your being played. There are mature guys on this forum who still can't get past that point... yet they remain on this site to get advice while trash talking women... Go figure.
Every girl has severe mood swings. Some girls are violently agressive. Some are alcoholics.... if they only say they are, than most likely it's only for attention. This girl, it's for attention for sure... no girl who had BPD would readily admit it to a guy she is interested in.
She likes you, do something about it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Dude, she's going to make a fine attention wh0re when she gets older.
Got to say that YES SHE DOES LIKE YOU. Like is the key word, she doesn't love you, as well you shouldn't be loving her.
Stop looking for end all be all solutions to your problems. For one, this isn't a problem. Two, you're young, stop being so gullible.
OCD is not BPD.
What the hell does point two mean? Your trying to convinve yourself something doesn't exist that all of us can see?
Want a quick and easy solution? Tell her to fvck off tomorrow and stop talking to you unless she is going to suck your d!ck. Give her three days of being scared of you, call her over to you, if she comes she doesn't hate you, and invite yourself to her house to get your d!ck sucked.
Got to say that YES SHE DOES LIKE YOU. Like is the key word, she doesn't love you, as well you shouldn't be loving her.
Stop looking for end all be all solutions to your problems. For one, this isn't a problem. Two, you're young, stop being so gullible.
OCD is not BPD.
What the hell does point two mean? Your trying to convinve yourself something doesn't exist that all of us can see?
Want a quick and easy solution? Tell her to fvck off tomorrow and stop talking to you unless she is going to suck your d!ck. Give her three days of being scared of you, call her over to you, if she comes she doesn't hate you, and invite yourself to her house to get your d!ck sucked.