"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bipolar *****

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There's this girl that sits with me at lunch. She also sits next to me in English and Religion. She's so bipolar, I don't get it. One moment she's smiling and talking to me, the next she's lightly making fun of me. I've called her out on it twice in front of people leaving her blushing. After that, she quits for a couple of days, but now she still does it. Now I just ignore her when she's being a ***** to me. I act like I don't hear her. What else is there to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she seems awkwardly uncomfortable around you, definitely a sign that she digs you. good call on that penkitten.
 

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Well she must like everyone. She's liked my friends Drew, use to like me, Andrew, Lee. God, talk about a *****.
 

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shes a young girl with hormones, she likes alot of guys secretly.

what is she doing that this website isnt suggesting you do? she smiles at you to flirt and then she neghits you.

come on, pick up on it already.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you got played playa wannabe!
 

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Shes not bipolar...dont say that. The fact that YOU cant take her making fun of you makes you a p*ssy to her. Basically shes negging you and youre failing. Neg her back, play around. Dont be so serious and ignore her like youre offended. Come on now kids, yall know better.
 

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Ive come very close to dating a bipolar girl. I got played without realizing it. One minute she would have done ANYTHING for me, the next she was a sadistic psycho *****.
 

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Apparently you guys don't really know what bipolar means...
And in case you don't know, using words you can't define makes you sound really stupid. Just a thought, just barely took a huge test on Psychology today.
 

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That's not being bipolar. Being bipolar means that a person is in one mood and suddenly jumps into another mood, basically, they have severe mood swings.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bipolar people are usually grandiose, loud people with big plans that they have no way of accomplishing...big dreamers out of touch with reality, so they tend to act on impulses and do random big things like try and rob a bank and just give up and sit on the curb when they get sprayed with the red ink or a cop shows up.

anyways shes not bipolar, she digs you and you need to keep the flirt up on your side.
 

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Eiljwa said:
Apparently you guys don't really know what bipolar means...
And in case you don't know, using words you can't define makes you sound really stupid. Just a thought, just barely took a huge test on Psychology today.
Actually, the girl Im talking about told me she was bipolar and she had the severe mood swings
 

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She told you she was bipolar?

I'd treat her like my big brother that I found out still thinks the easter bunny was real after he turned 25.

Just believing her, and than going off and telling all of us tells you how strung up she's got you.

Don't call her a b!tch because your being played. There are mature guys on this forum who still can't get past that point... yet they remain on this site to get advice while trash talking women... Go figure.

Every girl has severe mood swings. Some girls are violently agressive. Some are alcoholics.... if they only say they are, than most likely it's only for attention. This girl, it's for attention for sure... no girl who had BPD would readily admit it to a guy she is interested in.

She likes you, do something about it.
 

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1) She has OCD. So obviously she takes meds for it.
2) She says it lightly, but these are some harsh things to say. WTF?! She doesn't like me, just me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dude, she's going to make a fine attention wh0re when she gets older.

Got to say that YES SHE DOES LIKE YOU. Like is the key word, she doesn't love you, as well you shouldn't be loving her.

Stop looking for end all be all solutions to your problems. For one, this isn't a problem. Two, you're young, stop being so gullible.

OCD is not BPD.

What the hell does point two mean? Your trying to convinve yourself something doesn't exist that all of us can see?

Want a quick and easy solution? Tell her to fvck off tomorrow and stop talking to you unless she is going to suck your d!ck. Give her three days of being scared of you, call her over to you, if she comes she doesn't hate you, and invite yourself to her house to get your d!ck sucked.
 
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