"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This does NOT look like a person with mental issues AT ALL:

Are you being serious or sarcastic? In text, it's unclear to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I used to think home schooling made you weird and detached and incapable of forming normal relations with others.

Today I realize that with the amount of whôresh!t kids are fed and fed and fed at school, there's no way I'd let any child of mine (not that I can have any) set foot in a public school. Hell no.
 

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That wikipedia page says she has Tourettes, synesthesia, depression, and vegetarianism (lol). I've heard her talk about all that except the depression. I'm a little skeptical, she's a wealthy young California kid who jas probably had her own therapists and analysts since age six.

First off, what teenager doesn't suffer from depression at times?
Tourette's, it's possible she might have it, but then again it could be an excuse for when she makes a weird face in public (like when she took flak at the Oscars for making a face during Maya Rudolph and Kristin Wigg's act).
Synesthesia is interesting, but it sounds like it might be something they would make up and put out there because it makes her sound cool and gifted. "I see music as colors, doesn't everyone?".
I guess all that could relate to your "nuts in the head" comment.
I was going back to her upbringing and her thought process of life. Not like Psycho; but that cannot be ruled out these days.

Well, then why so much bitterness, is what I wonder.
No bitterness. I take everything in stride. We're cool dude.
 

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I dont know who she is and I dont know any of her songs but those eyes are telling me to stay away.

She could fill an application to portray satan in the next bible movie.
 

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Yeah, let's all band together in berating a man's daughter who's barely even out of adolescence and attack her character in his presence, even though none of you have actually even met her in person.

Such honorable, mature men.

Are you all failed musicians who Envy her massive success at such a tender age, when you've made nothing of yourselves with twice the time?
 

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Yeah, let's all band together in berating a man's daughter who's barely even out of adolescence and attack her character in his presence, even though none of you have actually even met her in person.

Such honorable, mature men.

Are you all failed musicians who Envy her massive success at such a tender age, when you've made nothing of yourselves with twice the time?
She's an adult celebrity.. It's all fair game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This does NOT look like a person with mental issues AT ALL:
Well, to be fair, of course she dresses weird, she's a pop star. Have you seen Lady Gaga?
Even in my day, the musicians dressed to look apart. Long hair, hippie attire, KISS, Elton John. Gwar, Buckethead, Slipknot.
 

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Well, to be fair, of course she dresses weird, she's a pop star. Have you seen Lady Gaga?
Even in my day, the musicians dressed to look apart. Long hair, hippie attire, KISS, Elton John. Gwar, Buckethead, Slipknot.
How many of the aforesaid can be considered mentally sane by conventional standards? They are all a bunch of weirdos and freaks and the fact that they are popular musicians doesn’t change that.
 

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She's an adult celebrity.. It's all fair game.
So you're saying celebrities aren't worthy of being granted the same level of respect as you'd have others give an obscure guy like you? Sounds a little irrationally entitled, doesn't it?

How many of the aforesaid can be considered mentally sane by conventional standards? They are all a bunch of weirdos and freaks and the fact that they are popular musicians doesn’t change that.
Don't fools deride that which they are too ignorant to understand?
 

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So you're saying celebrities aren't worthy of being granted the same level of respect as you'd have others give an obscure guy like you? Sounds a little irrationally entitled, doesn't it?
Nope. They selected to put their lives out in the public arena, that means there are no boundries; aside from illegal ones. Why are your panties in a bunch? Is it that time of the month?
 

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Nope. They selected to put their lives out in the public arena, that means there are no boundries; aside from illegal ones. Why are your panties in a bunch? Is it that time of the month?
Only Conceited and thus Insecure men resort to flimsy attempts to emasculate other men just for disagreeing with them. Were you the schoolyard bully too?

But the point is: I take it you don't have a daughter -- or if you do, it's clear she's neither beautiful nor talented.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Only Conceited and thus Insecure men resort to flimsy attempts to emasculate other men just for disagreeing with them. Were you the schoolyard bully too?

But the point is: I take it you don't have a daughter, and if you do, it's clear she's neither beautiful nor talented.
Okay cupcake. Whatever you say. Again, you are not even on my level. I'll let the other ones here entertain your childish antics moving forward. Be well lil dude.
 

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Okay cupcake. Whatever you say. Again, you are not even on my level. I'll let the other ones here entertain your childish antics moving forward. Be well lil dude.
And just what level is that? Am I to endure yet even more of your expressions of self-love and your false perception that you're superior to other men -- or are you to disappear because you're too proud to confront your follies?
 

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How many of the aforesaid can be considered mentally sane by conventional standards? They are all a bunch of weirdos and freaks and the fact that they are popular musicians doesn’t change that.
What I was trying to get at is:
How much of that is real and how much is just part of the act?
 
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