"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bill Maher on "making women nod"

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm not a big Bill Maher fan but that was a good watch.

His remark about his married friends being like the horse in Central Park with the blinders on, for example. It's not that marriage is so bad, it's that too many men feel they have to go along with their wives because they know the wives and the legal system have the men by the balls. If they end up displeasing their wives the courts are going to rape them, especially if they have children. That's why I think men are afraid to stand up for themselves, well some of them anyway.
 

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zekko said:
It's not that marriage is so bad, it's that too many men feel they have to go along with their wives because they know the wives and the legal system have the men by the balls. If they end up displeasing their wives the courts are going to rape them, especially if they have children. That's why I think men are afraid to stand up for themselves, well some of them anyway.
Not only that, its more important to be married and be whipped and do whatever the hell she wants and says than be single because, the public values relationship or married men more than single men. I got friends who wives live across a pacific ocean apart, they are still scared of them. :down:

Image is everything, standing up for yourself is nothing.
 

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Thank you for sharing this clip. The men who "cross" the feminized social boundaries such as Bill are fewer and fewer, especially in a broadcast. If really makes me cringe to hear the reactions and watch behaviors that people (including other men) have against men. If the video below, a man who was hitting a woman was immediately labeled to "look like a psychotic person," yet when a man was being abused, it took over 160 people not doing anything for ONE person to step in. In fact, most people saw it as completely acceptable. It makes me very upset to watch these videos. It really fuels my masculinist fire. Feminism has not created and is unlikely to create equality. Instead, it has shifted aggression and abuse--with a heavy dose of hatred--towards men such that we are now the ones being abused and that is "perfectly acceptable." Note that I am not advocating for the victimization of men here. Instead, I urge you to take a stand and challenge these illogical and biased behaviors in your everyday life. Challenge female entitlement, double standards, and stupidity. Yes it is, difficult to stand up for the things in which you believe when you are under social pressure. But if we do not, things like these will become more than the norm that they are becoming:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks
 

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Robyn923b said:
Thank you for sharing this clip. The men who "cross" the feminized social boundaries such as Bill are fewer and fewer, especially in a broadcast. If really makes me cringe to hear the reactions and watch behaviors that people (including other men) have against men. If the video below, a man who was hitting a woman was immediately labeled to "look like a psychotic person," yet when a man was being abused, it took over 160 people not doing anything for ONE person to step in. In fact, most people saw it as completely acceptable. It makes me very upset to watch these videos. It really fuels my masculinist fire. Feminism has not created and is unlikely to create equality. Instead, it has shifted aggression and abuse--with a heavy dose of hatred--towards men such that we are now the ones being abused and that is "perfectly acceptable." Note that I am not advocating for the victimization of men here. Instead, I urge you to take a stand and challenge these illogical and biased behaviors in your everyday life. Challenge female entitlement, double standards, and stupidity. Yes it is, difficult to stand up for the things in which you believe when you are under social pressure. But if we do not, things like these will become more than the norm that they are becoming:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks
Another good watch. Makes me cringe where our society is. I'm just glad I'm a Russian immigrant so my parents still confine to the proper standards of men and women for the most part. Might just move back to Russia when I'm older at this rate
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bill Maher's video is truth. I've said things like he did to others and I was looked at like a complete psychotic aṣṣhole! More comedians or other public speakers bringing this out to light is great.

The second vid pissed me off.
 

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Robyn923b said:
The men who "cross" the feminized social boundaries such as Bill are fewer and fewer, especially in a broadcast.
And he can only get away with it because he's a "comedian" (which, by default, means that whatever he says is not to be taken seriously). Can you imagine a politician or some other "serious" public figure saying the same thing? It would surely spell the end of their career.
 

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Yea definitely don't start preaching to your friends what Bill has said. Just keep it to yourself and understand what he says is true. Bill Maher gets away with it because he is a comedian and a well-respected man. You (reading this), although you might be funny, will probably start arguments with girls that will get you no where because they literally haven't opened their eyes to what is going on. It's a feedback loop of lies to keep everyone's head in the sand.
 

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Sofomore said:
Yea definitely don't start preaching to your friends what Bill has said. Just keep it to yourself and understand what he says is true. Bill Maher gets away with it because he is a comedian and a well-respected man. You (reading this), although you might be funny, will probably start arguments with girls that will get you no where because they literally haven't opened their eyes to what is going on. It's a feedback loop of lies to keep everyone's head in the sand.
I disagree. If we close our minds and settle into an attitude of self-defeat and helplessness, it will not get better. It all comes down to who you are on the inside and whether you want others to perceive you in a certain way. Regardless of which stand you take, some people will like you and others will dislike you--guaranteed. Therefore, it is on one's best interest to be oneself rather than--going back to what Bill says--nodding along to what society and women expect.
 

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Robyn923b said:
I disagree. If we close our minds and settle into an attitude of self-defeat and helplessness, it will not get better. It all comes down to who you are on the inside and whether you want others to perceive you in a certain way. Regardless of which stand you take, some people will like you and others will dislike you--guaranteed. Therefore, it is on one's best interest to be oneself rather than--going back to what Bill says--nodding along to what society and women expect.
I HAVE voiced my opinions on this and all of my friends' girlfriends see me as a piece of sh!t because I come off as a threat to the security of their relationship. They know I get it, and their boyfriend's dont. Their heads are in the sand and that's how the girls want it to be. I've lost a couple friendships because of this. Although it's probably for the best. If someone is so easily persuaded to not be friends with someone because their girlfriend says so, they shouldn't be in my life anyways.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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