"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bill Burr & Dave Chapelle on Chivalry.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
So very true indeed.
Men and boys are the disposable gender that can be sacrificed for the sake of the "highly valuable women".
It is the men and the boys that are sent to war to die, we have the most dangerous jobs, have most death accidents on work, we have to be the last to leave the sinking ship etc.
This is the way society works and expect from us guys which of course by todays modern standards is insane.
And when men do need help there is none to be found. There is thousands of shelters that help women, but try to find one shelter that helps men with their issues. I dare you..
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"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." Chris Rock