"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bill Burr & Dave Chapelle on Chivalry.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
So very true indeed.
Men and boys are the disposable gender that can be sacrificed for the sake of the "highly valuable women".
It is the men and the boys that are sent to war to die, we have the most dangerous jobs, have most death accidents on work, we have to be the last to leave the sinking ship etc.
This is the way society works and expect from us guys which of course by todays modern standards is insane.
And when men do need help there is none to be found. There is thousands of shelters that help women, but try to find one shelter that helps men with their issues. I dare you..
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"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." Chris Rock